Why Understanding The Woman You Love Is The KEY To A Long Lasting And Blissful Relationship"
If the woman you want to attract is holding power, such asbeing your boss or superior, you have to understand what these type of women want and what they lack in their psyche.For these women they are always meeting and encountering people who tend to be fawning and to want something from them. Their being in a position of power tends to make them look very cold and seem socially distanced from other people. However, in reality, most women of these type long to be seduced and loved by the right men who understands their innermost secret.
To make her fall in love with you, you have to act like their equal or their superior. It is very rare that other men would dare to or are willing to be her equal or superior, so you decide that you will be the one to give her the kind of treatment that she will never get from others. If you find out that she always do her jogging at a local park during the weekends morning, plan a chance meeting with her in your jogging gear. Make it look like an ‘accident’that both of you meet. Find an excuse to jog together, then challenge to her to a 200m sprint! If you work in the same company, race to complete an important report before her. It does not matter who come out as a winner. What matters is you’ll get her attention. Whatever it is, know what you are doing and why you do it. You get the idea.
If you are dealing with a woman who is constantly looking for adventure and changes in life, you cannot get their attention by showing them that you are a responsible man able to provide a sense of security. They do not want security; they want challenges, and they love playing mind games at times. To them, pain is pleasure, and they do not mind enduring pain at times. To her fall in love with you,you have to rise up to their level and inject drama and challenges into your relationship with you. You have to maintain an air of mystery about yourself and able to give surprises once in a while. This is the only way to allow herto see you as always interesting and challenging to be with,and so she will not be bored! For her, she does not need comfort, security or promises. She needs to get rid of her own boredom! Some ideas of what you can do to draw her toyou:
1) Learn to bake her homemade croissants for breakfast(something she would usually do herself)
2) Plan a chance meeting; and continue the next day,and the day after tomorrow. Ask her why you keep runninginto her.
3) Cancel an appointment with her and tell her you have something very important to attend to, but don’t give details.
4) Purposely don’t pick up her call during the time when she knows you will be available.
The man who is relaxed and confident has won half the battle. You must never doubt that you are the most desirableman in the world. This idea will seem ludicrous to you atfirst, but keep at it. Millions of men have accepted iteasily, and so can you. Give her the impression that she islucky to be with you, that you are, somehow, doing her afavor, and that it cannot last.
The object of really skillful flattery is to show that youdo appreciate her and that in fact she almost comes up toyour exacting standards. In short, create the impression that she is probably the most desirable girl in theworld—but that you haven't quite stopped looking. Flatter awoman only on her good points. She will know what they are,and it must be assumed that by this time so will you. A woman with good eyes, hair, breasts, or legs will know it,and can easily swallow the statement that they are the most beautiful in the world.
A word of caution, however, uncontrolled flattery is bad, can backfire and make a woman feel she is too good for you. Controlled flattery not only preserves the right balance,but also can lead to self-improvement.
"Your legs are lovely, dear. Probably the best in the country—below the knees."
"What's the matter with above the knees, Peter?"
"Did I say anything was the matter, Phoeb?"
"Peter, don't you dare leave me hanging here cut off at the knees! If my hips are too fat, say so!" (Deep in her heart every woman knows her own shortcomings.)
"You said so, sweet, not I. I like you just the way youare."
(This is always an excellent phrase. It shows toler­ance ,affection, and good nature—yet subtly implies there is room for improvement.)
Often you will find you have planted a seed. Watch it grow.
Here’s a secret about human nature which you can take noteof right now. People want to be engaged in things or else they will feel bored. Even doing meditation or going into are treat require you to be engaged in that activity! Become that which she is earnestly seeking and engage her! If thewoman you want is focused on some worthwhile cause or religion, say she is a very devout Buddhist, understand that these type of women have some sort of emptiness which theywant to fill in their psyche. Very often they feel something important is lacking in them, and thus they are always seeking and searching for the answer just what it is that is missing. If you want to make her fall in love with you or togo on a date with her, your plan would be to become herobject of worship and become that which she is earnestly seeking.